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Caught In The Middle?
My mom and dad are not talking.So since My father isn’t talking to my mom, I didn’t call him for a while.Now he’s saying my mother brain washed me and stuff. I’m mad at him because I asked him for only one pair of jeans and he never bought them for me.What should I do ?
Signed,
“Daughter In Between”
Our advice: The argument between your mother and father is between THEM. It is not your concern. They are both your parents and he is STILL your father no matter what. He is still entitled to respect from you even though he and your mother are not together. It just doesn’t seem right that you are not talking to him over not receiving a pair of jeans. I understand just how he feels. Imagine if he did not talk to you for a year. How would you feel? A father is a whole lot more than what he can buy for you.
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well im the same way,my mama and daddy r split but they talk now but it’s dealing with me but they get along my daddy is REALLy behind on child support cuz he lost his job n being a sheriff BUt he’s paying but its not much and it was times wen i never wanted to talk to him again an i didnt talk to him for months but now we talk more and i understand he’s still my daddy and he still gets me what i need and whAT I UMM…WANT-BUT ANYWAY JUS TALK!good advice angie an nessa
July 23rd, 2008 at 8:50 pmDon’t interfere because they will probably think it has a lot to do with the other parent and things will end up being real crazy and worse just give each of them some space so they can think
July 23rd, 2008 at 11:28 pmnever stop talking to either parent cause its alot of girls out here wishing they had a father dont let a pair of jeans get in the way of fatherand daugther relationship and the way that ur parents r let them deal wit it dont interfer cause its better having 2 parents than one believe it i know………..lovely
July 24th, 2008 at 2:38 amwell it seems to me that everybody’s parents are going threw a ruff time right now, becouse mine are always arguing, and fighting, even our neighbors are in the works of getting a divorce, over a website called ienvyu. yeah it’s really stupid their getting a divorce.
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July 25th, 2008 at 8:37 pmITS JUST A PAIR A JEANS YOU WILL GET OVER IT. Never stop talking to any of your parents beacause what if yours or their last day on this earth what would you do then.Be cool with both of your parents . THaye love you and thats all that matters!
July 25th, 2008 at 11:35 pmtijanea your acting a little stupid on these advice columns
July 25th, 2008 at 11:37 pmu acting a little stupid
July 26th, 2008 at 4:27 pmkeepzitreal need to stay out my f.u.n.c.k.i.n.g mounth.
July 26th, 2008 at 8:39 pmWell, i feel for you. My parents are split up and at times i do feel like not ever talking to me again but i get over it because i know he loves me and your father loves you too.
July 27th, 2008 at 1:08 amthank you?
July 27th, 2008 at 1:50 amI have the same problem with my parents too its that my dad has a new wife and my 3 year old brother by his wife so don’t never give up. Keep trying!!!!!!
July 27th, 2008 at 2:22 amthat’s what i said keep trying.
July 27th, 2008 at 4:36 amtijanae, you need to watch your mouth.
August 1st, 2008 at 9:38 pm