What’s A Girl To Do
This started on the last few weeks of school when one of my best guy friends told me that he liked me. I never really looked at him that why since the last summer so i didn\’t know what to say. On that Saturday i was hanging out with two of my female friends and my male friend “Burt”. “Kevin” & “Burt” didn\’t really hang out any more and “Kevin” got upset when he saw me talking to him.The next week at school i ask him what was that all about and he said \” you should know, that was on you\”. So i guess he was mad at me so he started going out with this girl i know. But she doesn\’t like him and he likews me more but was mad at me so now he knows she dosn\’t like him and starting to think that was the wrong way to handle it. What should i do?
Our advice: You need to have a real conversation with him. I know he may be acting silly and immature now, but once things settle. Sit down and have a real conversation with him. Communication is key to all relationships. Be they friendships or something more.
I agrre with vanessa and angela. u shuld sit down n talk 2 him n tell him u wanna b friends n nothin more. tell him that hes actin lyk a 5 year old and it needs 2 stop. things may or may not change regarding ur feelings for him..but u guys shuld b frineds no matter wat…
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I say you should let him know how you fill,and then ask him how he felt.Once knowing those things, i think you should let him know that you just want to be his friend.
July 18th, 2008 at 8:59 pmjust sit down and speak to him let him know how you feel.see what happens, you should tell him that you were just talking and that you never thought of him as a boyfriend or anything. ask if you guys can stay friends.
July 18th, 2008 at 9:44 pmi had the same problem, it might be confusing at frist but you really should sit him down and explain on how you are feeeling to both of them, if they don’t care then forget them they have to understand where your coming from.
July 19th, 2008 at 4:05 pmhe is just mad to see u with someone else and is jelous maybe you should stay best friends for a little bit longe
July 20th, 2008 at 4:49 pmI think going out with that girl is his way of getting your attention. He obvisouly wants you to know you hurt him for whatever reason he thinks you did but you should really talk to him on how you feel and tell him that you just want to be friends if not bestfriends.
July 22nd, 2008 at 11:09 pmI think that you should not even worry about him as a boyfriend and worry about him as a friend. Plus he can’t get mad cause you talk to other boys. That’s the normal life!
July 23rd, 2008 at 8:42 am