Too Old To Like?
Girls i like this boy he is very sweet and he likes me to.But the problem is that he is to old..but i just love him and he love me to. my mother doesn\’t want me talking to him. But i love him to much. I tried not to talk to him but I cant he is sweet,nice,funny,and kind..See he is 17 and i am 13 just help me please.
Our advice: We understand you may really like this guy, however, a 17 year old guy in this day and age should not date a 13 yr. old. He could get in a lot of trouble (legally) for dating you. Maybe when you are 17 it might be okay for you to see him.
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ive been in tha sit. just se where life takes you first than come back wean your older.he realy ccould get in trouble
September 30th, 2008 at 8:05 pmYea lyk vanessa & angela said he could get in alot of trouble for datin a 13 year old but i understand wat you r goin threw i way in da same place you was im 15 years old nd i was datin a 18 year old nd my moma didnt want him talkin to him but some how we still sneaked aroung nd talked i mean we use to go together but not no more we r friends jus take things slow dnt push it if he loves you nd u love him yall kan wait..
October 1st, 2008 at 8:03 ami under stand but u ken wait 3 years and 3 years is 36 months u ken wait un less u want him in jail
October 1st, 2008 at 12:14 pmI’m in the same situation, but the guy is at least 20. I know it’s not going to happen,but a girl can dream, can’t she?
October 1st, 2008 at 4:34 pmif he really loves you he could wait because great things like real love take time your mom iz just looking out 4 u and she doesnt want u 2 rush into things your not ready 4. if he can be patient without mentioning the fact that he realy wants to go out with u then he is a keeper. patience iz one of the best gifts that come with real and true love
October 1st, 2008 at 5:37 pmok girl i had a friend that was in the very same situation….exactlly the same…she was 13 and he was 17…..well they actually did start dating. they lasted 4 awhile but it really didnt work out. so i dont think you should do it…b/c my friends ex put her thru 2much..
October 1st, 2008 at 6:03 pmi think u should not date him because that is way to old for you and that is not right because he can go to jail for that??so u should take it a little slower okaii..
October 1st, 2008 at 11:31 pmIm in that situation right now because i like a boy whos 15 and im 13 and we like eachother
October 2nd, 2008 at 7:19 amHey there are 3 guys that i like and they all like me 2 . And all of them want me to be there gf but idk if i want any of them please help me!!!!!!!
October 2nd, 2008 at 9:17 amGirl just keep seing him if you love him
October 2nd, 2008 at 9:43 amI think that you should leave him alone for a while a simple hi and bye and see wats up with him thats it. Some of these girls telling you to go out with him, please don’t cuz i’m sure he wants to go to college or finish school. A 17 year old has got to stick to his age cuz dating a 13 year old girl ain’t cool and he can go to jail and if he hit 2nd base he can go to jail for rape. Its ok to be friends but you can’t trust everyone who smiles at you or seem to be nice to you, cuz in the 21st century guys tell girls wat they want to hear and don’t mean it, but i can be wrong, but usually i’m right. So just focus on school and maybe when you reach like 17 and he’s still interested in you then i’m sure it will be ok.
October 2nd, 2008 at 4:54 pmBest of luck!!!
hey V&A
i need your help im kinda confused on why this boy that im talkin to keep tellin me that it will never work and he feels like i dont really wanna be with him…but then he keeps on comin to me like he wants to be with me…im so confused should i tell him to make up his mind or should i jus leave him alone….PLEASE HELP ME
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