No Time To Talk
Dear Vanessa And Angela Simmons,
Well, There Is This Boy That Im So In Love With. I’ve Been Liking Him For Over A Year Now.
He Knows I Like Him And He Says He Likes Me Too. I Cant Stop Thinking About Him. Anyways, He Moves With His Grandparents For The School Year, So Didnt See Him Alot. He Comes Around My Way Every Now And Then On Breaks And Weekends. I See Him But Just Haven’t Actually Got The Chance To Talk To Him (Since He So Busy Playing Football). The Only Time We Talk Is On Myspace And Thats Like Every 2 To 3 Months. Last Time We Talked Was 2Months Ago And He Stilled Like Me At The Time,BuT I Think He Was Playing Me Or Something. But While This Is All Going On Hes Talking To Previous Ex-Girlfriends On The Phone Every So Often.There Telling Me Every Thing.When He Is Talking To His Previous Girlfriends There Not Flirty There Just Talking Like FRIENDS. Am I Jealous? I Get So Upset Cause I Gave Him My Number Online But He Doesn’t Never Seem To Call Me. So Now I Dont Know What to Do. Should I Just Get Over Him Or What?? I Just Dont Know What To DO Cause I’m Deeply In Love With Him.
Our advice: We understand that you have such strong feelings for this guy. We have all been where you are. The real issue is not about his ex-girlfriends and if they are just friends to him or something more to him. The real issue is does he have time for you? If you two only talk every couple of months how do you two have a relationship? How does he find time to talk to his exes before he talks to you. How often does he speaks to these exes? If you are not talking to him as much as the exes are you are not a priority to him. If you are not a priority to him please do not imagine a relationship when there isn’t one. Remember, there are other people out there. You will find someone who will find time to talk to you on a regular basis.
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I like the advice V&A gave it was the advice i would have gave. Trust me I’ve been in the same situation
June 28th, 2009 at 5:38 pm! l!k3 th!s boy, w3ll @ctu@lly m@hh x @nd h3 l!k3 m3 2 but ! l!k3 my bf now but h3 don’t l!k3 m3 th@t much wh@t should i do? plus my bf !s s!ns@tiv3
June 29th, 2009 at 8:39 pmi never get 2 talk 2 this really cute boy that i really like and i know he like mahh 2
June 29th, 2009 at 8:40 pmi once heard that if a guy really wants a girl, he would go ten rounds just so please her and be the guy she wants him to be. let him know what kind of guy u want him to be. if he likes u as much as he says he does, he would change himself to be that guy. otherwise…pull the plug.
and yeah, you are jealous of the other girls which to me is perfectly normal.
July 25th, 2009 at 10:15 ammy asvice fo u is leave him the hell alone it seem like he got ova u so just move on to a differnt boy
July 29th, 2009 at 8:14 pm