Nov
Shy & Single…Still!
Hi Pastries,
Well i have this friend that i like very much and i have
been liking him since 8th grade but i have never expressed
myself to him.one summer we had a lil conversation about us
getting together but i dont know i guess we just got off
that subject.. but now i sorta kinda still like him but he
has been out with two of my friends..and i just dont know if
i should express my feelings or not..what should i do?????
Our advice: If you still like him you need to let him know. Look at the time that has been wasted. He has now gone out with a couple of your friends and you have not even had the chance. We have said this over and over again: Guys are not mind readers! Some of them are just as shy as you are. If you like someone let him/her know. If you continue to give in to being too afraid to express yourself, he will date more of your friends and other people and you will be the only one missing out. Believe in yourself and go for it! Let him know!
What would you ladies suggest?
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Well. I’m really upset about sumthing. I’m kinda scared to tell you incase he reads this. he’z kinda pressuring me into having ***. he’z the hottest guy in school and he said if I don’t have *** with him he’ll dump me. I really really like him. I don’t think I’m old enough to have *** I’m 14 years old. He’z 16. I don’t know what to do. Please help.
November 20th, 2008 at 6:47 amDONT DO IT DNT HVE*** ITZ ALLEGAL ANYWAYS IF HE`S PRESSURING YUE,HE DNT REALLY LOVE YOU AND THINK, DO YOU LIKE HIM AS A WHOLE (PERSONALITY ECT) OR JST 4 LKS
November 20th, 2008 at 12:53 pmFirst off let me giv u honest advise! There is no such thing as a too shy dude! Guys arent mind readers but u can tell if someone if feeling u. Esp if yal already had the convo before. Not to sound mean, but if he went out wit two of ur friends and has no pursued u there is def a reason and its NOT b/c he is shy. Im sure he knows u like him, and Im sure u can tell if he is slightly interested. When u had the convo with him how did he react. If nothing came about it then leave it that way! Men are stupid but not a dumb as u think. DO THIS, another male how do u know when a girl likes u, can they tel.. watch the response! Just let it be hun.. there are alot of guys I have been interested in, had crushes on, they may or may not have dated my friend in the past.. but something werent meant to be.. Im tellin u.. dont go there!
November 20th, 2008 at 1:58 pmI have that same problems at times, I am extremely shy. I tell the person I find them attractive but I don’t really come out and express every detail like how long I’ve been liking him or things like that. I would say find out first if he find you attractive for a potiental relationship or strong friendship. You never know that friendship can blossom into something else more.
November 20th, 2008 at 3:01 pmDONT DO IT THAT IS THE NUMBER 1 GURLS RULE DONT GO OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS EX-BOYFRIEND U WILL BE KNOWN AS SUMTHIN YOU DONT WANT TO BE KNOWN AS SO JUST MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE INSTEAD OF HIM DONT WASTE YOUR TIME!
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November 24th, 2008 at 2:40 pmHey.. Same thing happened to me once. I told him I still liked him and we have been goin out 4 6 months! Take a chance. Even if he doesn’t still like u, at least he will know and maybe change his mind. xoxo
November 29th, 2008 at 10:41 pm