Should Mom Be Uninvited?
a & v i gots a problem. i am having a sleepover at my house soon but i dont wont my mother there. she is no fun and will not let me and my friends have fun. if that happens nobody is gonna want to be friends with me anymore. i also dont want my mother to be ther becuz she is fat and everybody will laff at her. i want my auntee to be the adult there because she is fun and pretty. what do i do. what do you think? thank you.
Our advice: Since she is your mother you will have the sleepover according to her rules. We think it is very wrong of you to think this way about your mother. After all, she is YOUR mother and you should be grateful to have one. You should also be grateful she is allowing you to have a sleepover. Your reaction to your mother being fat and not fun is really your concern over your friends’ reaction. If they are really true friends they will still be your friend after meeting your “fat” “not fun” mother. Why don’t you discuss with your mother what you and your friends have planned for the sleepover. That way you two can be on the same page of what will be going on. You can discuss what your mother will and won’t allow. Just remember, she is the parent and her role is to keep you and your friends safe.
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have your mom there during the party but when everybody start to go to sleep or go out and party that they should tell her that you only wanted your friends to come that is around your age and tell her that yall willl do something with her the day after everything
November 26th, 2008 at 5:44 pmi agrre with v & a
November 26th, 2008 at 5:44 pmi think that what she said about her mom was just rude and mean i know i wud never do that to my mom why doesn’t she just talk to her and in anicely way tell her give u some space during the sleepover but don’t say it in a mean way. its alright.
November 26th, 2008 at 6:57 pmI dont have a mom anymore . be gratefull tthat you have one
November 27th, 2008 at 12:19 pmask her if she could lyk,stay in a diff room wen u nd ur fwendz r playing or summin buh u shoodnt say stuff lyk dat bout ur mum dahs juss dissin here
November 27th, 2008 at 1:07 pmit doent matter wat yo friends think jus hav fun and if dey laugh there not yo tru friends,because if they were they would not treat you or her lke dat.-love-MZ.BROWN
November 27th, 2008 at 5:54 pmi agree! u really shud b grateful for a mother, she loves you and if u ask maybe she’ll let you u never know. so i think u should just sit down and talk with her 2 c if yall are on the same page
November 28th, 2008 at 7:39 pmTALK THINGS OUT WITH YOUR MOTHER IN IT WILL WORK OUT IN THE END
November 29th, 2008 at 3:10 pmthatz really mean to say about your mom
November 29th, 2008 at 4:17 pmlisten here u ungrateful b**** that was reall missed up about what u said about ur mother… ou seem reall insecure and have a low self esteem about urself and ur mother… if ur friends cant accept u and urs famil for who ou are then to hell with them i think that u should just lt them be… and if i was ur mother i wouldnt let u have a part at all… now wat if ur mother was to read this how do u think she would feel.. she would be she hurt and ver disappointed like seriousl hun were is the self respect but that its for now im out…
November 29th, 2008 at 7:57 pmI THINK SHE SHOULD ONLY BIF THEIR WAS AN EMERGENCY ,YEAH CAUSE THATS WHAT PARENTS R 4 ,BUT OTHER WISE BYE BYE MOMMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
November 29th, 2008 at 9:05 pmN THIS DON’T EVEN SOUND LIKE SOMETHING V&A WOULD SAY .I WANNA KNOW WHO’S BEHIND ALL OF THIS!!!!!!!!!!
November 29th, 2008 at 9:07 pmthats rude.she is your only mom.u can’t take that back.
November 30th, 2008 at 9:14 amyou are very ungratefull because you put you friends before your mom and the might not even really be your riends they might just be usin you.duhhh.think before you speak.that was just stupid.
November 30th, 2008 at 9:18 ami compleletly agree with vanessa and angela. ur being ungrateful and a brat. if ur friends r u tru friends, they shouldnt care about ur mom bing “no fun” and “fat”. u shuld learn 2 b more secure and proud of who u r. i bet ur mom does so much for you and i think its sooo rude and disrespectful for u to say that and mayb u shuld check urself and stop being such a brat about it cuz ur mom is only making sure tht u n ur friends r safe.
December 7th, 2008 at 1:07 am