heyy angela nd vanessa,
i have this huge problem. see i really really like this guy named lito but my parents dn\’t really like him [[mostly b/c of our 1 1/2 age difference]] nd well we actually started going out about a month ago nd my mom found out of course i got in trouble but to make matters worse she told me i had to break up with him i had no choice but listen to her i was very mad my mom doesn\’t care if i talk to him as long as i dn\’t go out with him but it\’s jus that i dn\’t think i can go on knowing that i can\’t go out with him.and i can\’t really talk to anyone esle about this b/c my friends dn\’t understand what i\’m going thru nd how i\’m feeling nd my sister\’s dn\’t really approve of us going out.
Our advice: Did you ever consider that your mother, sisters and friends may know negative things about him that you do not know or are not willing to accept at this time? You did not inform us of your age or his age but age difference can be a real issue. If he is close to 2 yrs. older than you, it is not cool for a 13 yr. old to be dating a 15 yr. old. Considering you are still a minor, the only thing you can do is respect your mother’s wishes. Maybe others see the relationship as being too intense for you at your age. The best thing to do is concentrate on yourself and your school work. Prepare for your future. We know that sounds corny and may not be what you want to hear, but it is so true. If you two are destined to be together than you will.
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well if you can still talk to him it might now be that bad, don’t try to be sneaky and date him while your mom doesn’t know.
October 17th, 2008 at 3:38 pmOk it is dis boy named SETH n I really like him alot but I have 2 problems. He is 14 n I am 11 me n my friend are both crazy bout our boyfriends. N our boyfriends are really close they act like brothers n they very sweet n funny they both of them look excatly alike but my bf is taller than my friend is bf but both our bf are our height. N my bf is bad n if he get 1 more writeup he will go to APASS. So my other friend shayna say dat I need 2 sit down n tell him when he get back from suspension I need to tell he need to try to be good bc if he leave I will only see him at da games n in da mornig to go to APASS. N he went last year too n stayed da hole year. N I am afraid dat he will get sent again. But dat might not happen bc we both like each other alot. But everybody say dat I am him when I have his jacket on n dat we look good 2gether.
October 19th, 2008 at 1:26 amSETH did go to APASS n I just get over him dat didn’t help. I saw him Friday morning n said his nickname which is da “white goblin” he smiled with a smile from here 2 NEW YORK then he told me bye “mrs white goblin” which is my nickname. Another good thing is he might be comin back 2 da skool dis week or next week. And he might be comin 2 our homeroom class n I have n empty seat on da side of me. then I know I will be laughing n smiling all day long. Then the other day he told his friend dat is in my class after he was sent APASS to ask me if I like if him 2 go 2 APASS with him n I said tellq him 2 come back.
October 26th, 2008 at 11:57 am