Dear Vanessa & Angela,

     I have a problem and i was hoping you can help me out.Okay im going out with this boy again.I went out with him in 5th,6th,7th and now 9th grade.I feel the past is the past and it should be left there, but he is head over hills for me and im so over him.Its not just that we dont even see each other now that I moved.Now the thing is i dont want to break his heart again.He tried getting back with me two times but i said no because first i loved someone else and the second time was because i was diggin somebody else.I told him yea because i didnt wanna put him down like that but now i havent talked to him in like 5 days.!What should I do?

Our advice: Yes, it seems like in this case the past should be left behind. You never seemed to really be into him that much. You need to get over breaking his heart because you are not happy in going with him. You are just dragging things out if you really don’t have feelings for him. If you really are not happy let him know how you feel. He will eventually get over the breakup.

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