Jealous Girl In Town
i hate to admit it but i am so jealous of my best friend. she seems to have it all. all the real cute guys like her and her parents have money (ok not as much as you have). it has gotten so bad that i almost want to stop being her friend. i really don’t mean to feel like this but i just cant help it.
Signed,
“Green Eyed Girl”
Our advice: You really need to check yourself on this. Friends are hard to come by. Why should you fault her for the things she is fortunate enough to have. That stuff is superficial anyway. You never know, but she may be unhappy although she is so blessed with the things you think she has. You have to look inside yourself and find and appreciate the gifts you have been blessed with. This is the only way to end the negative jealous feelings you have towards your friend. Did you ever think that she may be jealous of some of your talents? It is possible. We each have our talents that makes us unique.
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WELL i THiNK THAT yOU SHOULDNT BE JEALOUS BECUASE iF yALL ARE REALLy FRiENDS THEiR’S NOTHiNG TO BE JEALOUS ODF AND DONT HOLD iT AGANiST HER JUST TAKE SOME TiME AND THiNK ABOUT iT BECUASE THE MORE yOU HOLD iT AGANiST HER FARTHER yOU GUyS WOULD SPREAD APART
July 18th, 2008 at 2:48 pmSO TAKE SOMETiME AND THiNK ABOUT iT THEN CONFRONT HER WiTHOUT A ATTiTUDE AND TELL HER HOW SHE FEELS BECUASE SHE JUST CANT STOP BEiNG FOURTAUNTE AT THE CLiCK OF A BUTTON BE THANKFUL FOR HER THAT SHE HAS WHAT SOME PEOPLE MiGHT .NOT HAVE AND THATS WHAT TRUE FRiENDS ARE
BECUASE yOU WOULDNT WANT HER NOT BEiNG yOUR FRiEND BECUASE OF THE SOMETHiNG yOU HAVE THAT SHE DOESNT
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July 19th, 2008 at 3:01 pm1st of yall you must be white because if you were black you wouldn’t be jealous of your bestfriend anyways. I was born and raised in the ATL. And im proud to say im black but if i was jealous of someone I would explain my problem to my bestfriend and if she dont like it i would whoop her damb ass.!!!!
July 19th, 2008 at 4:55 pmI think you should look inside yourself because its not about your friend. Its about you, you dont feel all that great about yourself do you? If you had a lot of confidence you wouldn’t even be on here asking this so we all know that you doubt yourself from time to time. We all do, but you have to start loving who you are and once that happens then anyone else and the things they have wont even bother you because you wont care. You’ll love you regardless. Peace, and I hope you grow to loving you more.
July 19th, 2008 at 7:57 pmI DISAGREE WITH SAMONE BECAUSE THEIR ARE PLENTY OF BLACK PEOPLE WHO ARE JEALOUS OF THEIR FRIENDS I SHOULD KNOW BECAUSE I AM BLACK (NOT SAYIN THAT I AM JEALOUS OF ANYONE) AND I WAS BORN AND RAISED IN LOUISIANA SO IT DOESNT MATTER WHERE YOU ARE FROM BUT ANYWAY HERE IS MY ADVICE FOR JEALOUS GIRL IN TOWN IF YOU ARE JEALOUS OF FRIEND TELL HERE AND SEE WHAT SHE HAS TO SAY IF SHE DOESNT LIKE IS O WELL BUT THAT DOESNT GIVE YOU A REASON TO START A FIGHT WITH HER IF SHE DOESNT AND IF IT IS A PROBLEM WITH YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE THEN TAKE CONTROL OF THAT PROBLEM AND FIX IT MAY NOT BE EASY BUT IT WILL HELP LOADS
July 20th, 2008 at 3:53 amyou should actually be glad you have a friend like that and you need some more selfesteem because i had a best friend like that and once she came over my house and saw i had it better than her and then she started acting weird and now she isn’t my friend anymore becuase of her attitudes and stuff
July 20th, 2008 at 4:46 pmYOU NEEDZ AN ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT I THINK YOU JUST WANTED 2 POST SOMETHIN ON DA SITE!!!
July 20th, 2008 at 8:09 pmyea dat right da buisn3ss
July 20th, 2008 at 9:14 pmWell I dont think you should be JEALOUS toward your friend I mean come on yeah she got money know what that means ya can go shoppin and so the guys like her maybe she can get you with 1. Come on if you are JEALOUS of your friend then I dont think you are her true friend.
July 21st, 2008 at 12:05 pmand samone im black to what does being black or white have to do with the problem this girl is having?
July 21st, 2008 at 12:07 pmGirl!!!!!! This shouldn’t even be a big thing for you to worry about…You are special in your own way regardless of how much money you have or how many boys talk to you! I bet you she is probably jealous of something you have that she doesn’t too!!! Don’t focus so much on what other people have and you don’t, focus on the things that make you happy and proud to be you!!! Don’t let this get between ya’ll, especially if you think the freindship is important…
July 23rd, 2008 at 1:52 amgirl i have some of the same problem’s but if your friendship if strong like the one i have you can get through it and in the end the same might happen to you.
July 23rd, 2008 at 4:01 amI know how u feel…as far as ur BFF being mor fortunate than you…i was in the same position. My BFF parents had money like that and she always got what she wanted…but u shouldnt be jealous. Through my BFF i learned that money wasnt alwayz happiness..yea she received everything she wanted but she wasnt happy. The Material THingz got old..so dont be jealous. The last thing ur BFF needs is a jealous person leaving her as a friend. There is a reason why she is still ur friend even though u girlz arent on the same financial level. She needs you to be there for her because she know that money isnt everything.
July 23rd, 2008 at 4:15 pmhope thiz helpz
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Don`t BE JELOUS SHE IS YOUR FRIEND JUST TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL I AM SURE SHE WILL UNDERSTAND HAVE A NICE FRIENDSHIP AND ROCK ON
July 23rd, 2008 at 8:01 pmya i kno exactly wat u mean. my best friends dad makes a pretty penny and she always has the best stuff. Im not jealous tho bcuz shes my friend and shes ur friend. exect her neway she cums…stay strong and good luck
July 23rd, 2008 at 11:55 pmsorry i meant except her neway she cums..and bsides..she excepts u..even tho u n her arent on a equal finances..stay strong and good luck
July 23rd, 2008 at 11:58 pmn samone wat r u talkin bout..im black n im proud 2 b it…and so wat..i can get jealous sumtimes but doesnt make me white or wateva…u need 2 think about wat u sayin b4 u type juss nethang u dont know wat ur talkin about..wat u said has nothing 2 do wit this girls problems neway
July 24th, 2008 at 12:03 amwell i tinkk dat u shulddnt be jealouss i mean she must b MEXiCAN iF ERR1 LikS HER…(psshh.yeah.) but i mean u b iNDEPENDENT & if boyz dnt like yuh who givez a fuxx? i mean u b happy fo who u iz n if noone like it well fuxx em! :]
July 25th, 2008 at 5:45 pmshes pretty
July 26th, 2008 at 4:20 amwell i think you shouldnt be jealous of your best friend you guys are suppose to be tight just tell her how you feel God made everyone in their own special way he made your best friend in one way and he made you in the other so dont be jealous dont contrast yourself from your bestfriend
July 29th, 2008 at 2:35 pmSamone you sound so ignorant u need 2 shut up
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