Jul
I Saw Mommy Kissing…And It Wasn’t Santa Either!
i need your advice real bad. yesterday i walked in my house and saw my mother sitting on the couch kissing some other man. my parents are still married and we all live in the same house. the man who was kissing my mother lives down the street from us. i wanna tell his wife and my father. i really hate my mother now and cant talk to her. i know if i tell my father they will get a divhors. i need to know what to do.
Signed,
“Can’t Believe What I Saw”
Our advice: We can only imagine how you feel. Our hearts go out to you. It might be best if you sit down and have a one on one conversation with your mother. Let her know what you saw and how it made you feel. We do not think you should tell your father or the man’s wife. It is not your place to tell anyone. Let this be a secret between you and your mother. This is something your mother and father will have to work out on their own.
What words of wisdom do you have? Please leave them in the comments section.
that’s horrible just don’t worry about i feel your pain my dad is with a bunch of women and i feel very sad even thought he’s with those ladies i still have hope for me and my parents something just tells me it’s gonna be alright.
July 11th, 2008 at 5:25 pmHey I think you should sit down and talk to your mother and tell her how you feel.Have her to tell the man she was kissing to say we can’t do this anymore I have a family that really cares for me and will never hurt me. If that doesn’t work then tell your father first then tell the mans wife only if it doesn’t work
July 11th, 2008 at 9:31 pmgeorgia is right u shoud do that she poply tell you dad to and let them wock it out
July 11th, 2008 at 11:56 pmI think you should talk to your mom that you know if you havent told her yet.And let her rknow that if she dont do somethin bout it you tellin yo daddy
July 12th, 2008 at 7:55 pmWOW…I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY ABOUT THAT…I HAVE NEVER BEEN IN THAT TYPE OF SISUATION.BUT IF IT WAS ME,I WOULD BE MAD AT MA MAMA TO!
July 12th, 2008 at 9:50 pmIt’s okay sweetie
July 12th, 2008 at 11:07 pmLeave it in GODS hands not your own
He’ll solve everthing
Dont worry
My prays go out to you
I FEEL WHAT MIZZSTLOUIS! ITS NOT FOR YOU TO TRY TO WORK IT OUT BECAUSE IT MAY BE TOO MUCH FOR YOU! JUST CALL ON THE LORD! BE PEACEFUL!
July 13th, 2008 at 1:33 amiF i SAW MY MOTHER KiSSiNG SOMEONE OTHER THAN MY FATHER; i WOULDN’T SEE MY MOTHER THE SAME WAY i SAW HER BEFORE i KNEW THAT SHE WAS HAViNG AN AFFAiR WiTH ANOTHER MAN. i STiLL WOULDN’T TELL MY FATHER BECAUSE i KNOW THAT iT WOULD BREAK HiS HEART AND MY FAMiLY WOULD NEVER BE THE SAME. i WOULD NOT REVEAL MY SECRET TO ANYONE ELSE; BUT i WOULD COMFRONT MY MOTHER SO THAT SHE COULD TELL MY FATHER THE SiTUATiON IN HER OWN WORDS. THAT PROBABLY WOULD MAKE MATTERS BETTER BECAUSE MY MOTHER WOULD CONFESS AND TELL THE TRUTH. STiLL MY FAMiLY WOUDLN’T BE THE SAME.
July 13th, 2008 at 4:15 amDang!!!!!! I dnt know wat to say bcuz my parents are all ready divorced……….actually keep your head up you neva kno what is going to happen.jus pray to god that everything is going to be okay. ask god to try to get your parents marriage back on track so yall can stay a family.
July 13th, 2008 at 12:53 pmwhat u should do is not only sit down with your mom but your dad too. u live in the house just like the others do and you deserve just as much respect that is something a child does not want to walk in the door to and think about the future you wouldnt see that again correct?!
July 13th, 2008 at 2:33 pmcan you and every body you all know can go to this website http://www.rewards1.com/index.php?referrer_id=204710 and register and complete as many offer as you can so i can get a free ipod touch for my 16h birth day my birth day is august 2,2008 please can you do this i alread got three points but i need 400 or can you send me one. please
July 13th, 2008 at 4:27 pmooookkkkaaaayyyyyyy……..
July 13th, 2008 at 6:29 pmdang i know that must be hard i hope your mom didn’t notice that you saw that but stay strong
July 13th, 2008 at 8:51 pmhvae a 1 on 1 conversation with ur mother and ur father tuff luke 4 u but its gona be okay
July 13th, 2008 at 11:25 pmu should tell ur dad because if he find out on his own then he wil get in an argument with ur mom and he will probaly ask u if u new about this and u will probaly say yes and he will blame it all on u cuz u should have told him so…………
July 14th, 2008 at 11:43 amI THINK U SHOULD CONFRONT YOUR MOM BECUZ SOMETHING SIMULAR TO THAT HAPPENED WITH MY PARENTS BECUZ WHEN MY DAD DIED MY MOM FOUND OUT HE WAS MESSING AROUND WITH A LOT OF WOMEN AND NOW SHE JUST CANT GET OVER IT AND SHE HAS DREAMS ABOUT HIM FOOLING AROUND WITH OTHER WOMEN EVEN THOUGH HE IS DEAD SO THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO IS CONFRONT HER
July 20th, 2008 at 5:18 amBasketball Play Basketball Games Soccer Moms…
I didn’t agree with you first, but last paragraph makes sense for me…
August 2nd, 2008 at 4:05 pm