Frustrated Friend
Hii Vanessa and Angela I have a problem with one of my friends.she is datin this guy who has a baby on the way by this girl.and all it does is bring drama and now she takes her fustration out on me.and I don’t like that and its days she act funny towards me and I don’t know if I should stop being her friend and move on or work thangs out with her..I need your advice so hope you read my email and write B∀CC₭..
Our advice: You should express all of this to your friend. Let her know that you understand how she feels but that is no excuse for her behavior towards you- especially because of a guy.Inform her that he now has has a lot of reponsibilities on the way and may not have much time for her. Just be patient with her, she is going through a rough patch at the moment.
What would you guys suggest?
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HI VANESSA AND ANGELA I HAVE A FRIEND AND SHE ACTS FUNNY TOWARDS ME WEN SHES AROUND HER SISTER ND HER SISTERS FRIENDS SHE ALWAYS SAYIN THAT I ACT FUNNY BUT I WANNA KNOW WHO I ACT FUNNY AROUND SHES GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS I DONT KNO IF I SHOULD STOP BEIN HER FRIEND OR WHAT PLEASE READ THIS EMAIL AND WRITE B@cK!
October 17th, 2008 at 7:00 pmOOHH W0W…U CAN HANDLE UR SELF. (TO:JAZZIEBOO)
October 17th, 2008 at 8:07 pmshes just frustrated. you should talk to her and if she blows you off i would stop being her friend. friend’s should treat each other with respect.
October 18th, 2008 at 9:38 amITS KINDA LYK UGLY BETTY WIF HENRY ND CHARLIE
October 18th, 2008 at 12:36 pmi met this guy wen i was 11 we wer frenz @ 1st then we started dating 4 6 months and he moved bak 2 jersey we never said we loved each other till lik 5 months after he moved and we still talk and im 15 almost 16 that 4 yrs i mean we date other ppl we r very open about a lot of things we tell each otha wen we hook with ppl and stuff but he ended up having a baby i was so hurt but what can i do just cut him no so i try to support him with everything even if it hurts i put so much effort in2 this relationship but i cant get a simple fone call @ least once a week wen we do talk he tells me he loves me and he wants to b with me and he wishes i was the 1 that had tha baby and i believe him but if thats how he feels he need to get on a bus and come c me right i jusst think maybe i need to fall back a lil or justt wait 4 him to come around but then again i dont wanna lose this relationship we put in too much time to just 4-get and move on like what we have is real im not some young girl that thinks she’s in love with every guy the only guy i’ve ever loved was him and rite now its hurtin me b/c im with this guy and i really like him and he wants to love me but i wont let it get that far i dont no how to truly love another guy other than him i really do love that boy with all my heart i cant justt stop loving him b/c wen u love someone it never dies it never slows down idk what do i do???
October 20th, 2008 at 11:17 am