wats up v and a… my name is “marva” i am a freshman in college. me and my friend “heather” both came from the same high school. but her best friend “linda” come here to even though she went to a different high school than us. “heather” started talking to this boy name “craig” but six days after they met she had sexual intercourse with him she told her best friend “linda” about it soon after it happen she told me a month and half later. but i don’t like her friend “craig” because he told her he don’t want to be up in a relationship with her….  so i feel like her is leading her on.. he come in her dorm and eat her food spends the night and she also given him her debit card… but i don’t approved of that but she say i am being to “judgemental” of her. she says that i am not supporting her.. how can i support her when i know he is using her. “craig” told “heather” he will not becoming back to semester. she feels me and “linda” hangout all the time and she feels like and outcast… i told her she always have “craig” in her room and she be busy… she said she would still hangout with us because we are her friends…but i am like wateva….but everytime we ask her she say she don’t want to hangout with us.. she want me to call her and tell her things but instead of calling her i call “linda”.. i don’t know wat to do…. can u please help me

Our advice: Don’t sweat it. Your friend is just too into a guy who seems to be doing her wrong. All you can do in this situation is to let her make her own mistakes. She’s got to learn on her own. Don’t be judgemental. Just be there for her like a true friend would. She’ll come around.

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