Confused But Wanting (And Everybody Else Too)
Dear Angela and Vannessa,
I need some advice. I’m in the sixth grade and there is a boy that I like and he knows. Everyone thinks that we are or we should go out but I think wrong because my two friends like him too. One of them doesn’t even care if I like him because she just wants to go out with him. IDK if he likes me or not. I should wait to go to high school so I can just hang out with him but I’m worried if that’s the guy I should hang out with three years later. What should I do?
P.S. Confused Little Girl
Our advice: Very interesting situation. At this time, it may be best that you don’t get too involved with him. If your friends are crazy over him too it could cause friction in your friendship if you start seeing him. Since you are in the 6th grade are you even allowed to date? You should wait and see how things develop. Maybe you might get acquainted with him or get to know him more as a friend for the time being. If it’s meant to be you two will be together in high school. Just remember he is not the only guy out there. There will be more people in your future we are sure. Don’t limit yourself. Keep your options open.
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Hi like Angela and Vanessa said i think you should wait and see how you 2 do as far as being freinds if that dont work out then you deff need to find anutha luva or crush becuz he aint no gud no more well at least nt 4 u
SINCERLY Kevia
August 21st, 2009 at 8:39 pmI agree with Angela, Vanessa, and Mz. Kevia. You should get to know him as a friend and see how that goes. If that doesn’t work out, then that is an indication that a relationship with him would not work out. In addition, you should wait until you are older to start dating.
August 22nd, 2009 at 12:19 amYou should wait to see how it plays out if he doesnt like or go out with the other girls but maybe u shouldgoout then . but done ever jepordize your friendship over a boy its not worth it in the long run.
August 22nd, 2009 at 12:26 amo.o you’re grade six! yeah, that’s BAD.
August 22nd, 2009 at 6:54 amyou are still young so take things slow still get to know him as a friend also get to know other guys…keep your options open for now.eventually if there is anything there it will come out naturally…also dont allow dealings with this boy get in the ways of your friendships wit your girls. all the best to you.
August 22nd, 2009 at 12:30 pmHoney you are still young and have a long life ahead of you dnt let one boy come into your mind cause it aint worth it. I also think you shouldn be worried about boys get your education and let mr. right come to you and oh one more thing your friend that dnt care about how you feel about the situation is not your real friend cause she is showing you that she dnt care about your feelins.
August 23rd, 2009 at 12:49 pmI agree With Angela and Vanessa maybe u should wait becuz im in the sixth grade to and im not gonna be ready for a boyfriend no time soon and stuff like that could mess up a really good friendship with u and ur friends so i think u should wait.
August 23rd, 2009 at 3:01 pmi agree with v and angela.
August 26th, 2009 at 10:14 am