Broke Up But Still Has Feelings
Dear V + A,
I’m “Carla Lynne” and there’s this boy named “Brad” that I really like. We were going out with each other for about 4 months and he broke up with me because he says I’ve ‘changed’ but he won’t tell me why. I don’t know what to do and I think he still likes me. I know he’s hiding something because his friends try to tell me why he doesn’t like me anymore but “Brad” always somehow figures out a way to catach them in the act and gets really angry! I’m really sad because all my friends have bfs and I don’t. A few other boys like me but I like “Brad”, not them!
Please Help,
“Carla Lynne”
Our advice: If you have tried to talk things over with “Brad” and he does not want to listen then let it be. He is either too afraid to discuss things with you or is just trying to find an easy way out of your relationship. Either way, that’s on him. You have tried. The ball is now in his court. If he is unwilling to talk to you or is not interested in making up, move on. Don’t hold on to anyone who does not like you.
Someone else will appreciate you more.
Do not feel down because all your friends have boyfriends. There may be a time when you have a boyfriend and they won’t. Take the time to appreciate yourself.
What should she do? What would you do?
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I an going through the same thing right now with this boy at my school. He said i’v changed and that i dont act the way i used to last year. Changes are he is hiding something if his friends says he doesn’t like you. What you do is talk to other gys that like you in front of him and see how he reacts. If he doesn’t react like he like you then he might be over you. I had to do the same thing
November 15th, 2008 at 10:29 pm