Why Boo?
Dear Angela & Vannesa Simmons,
My friend just started talking to my ex and from what I have heard she has been saying nasty stuff to him on the phone. She just met him. Yes, I do have a problem with that because i still have deep feelings for him even though he broke up with me. We still have deep feelings for each other. Now she is calling him “Boo” and all that. I don’t know what to do. It makes no sense that she has to call him her boo cause she doesnt even know him like I do!
I asked her about it and she said that it was all him and she didn’t say anything. I don’t know what to do about this because he said that he still loves me and that he will always love me, but he isn’t showing it..
What should I do?
Sincerly,
“Serina”
Our advice: Although he may still have feelings for you (and you for him), you must understand that he broke up with you. There is a reason for that. He may not be ready to settle down with one person right now. Also, actions speak louder than words. What are his actions telling you now that he is calling other girls? What are his actions telling you now as he is speaking on the phone with your friend? Maybe he has moved on. Don’t blame your friend so much. Maybe you should let her know how you feel about her seeing the guy you broke up with. I’m sure she will consider your feelings. You should not sit around waiting for him to come back to you. Go out there and live! Enjoy your own company and know that there is someone out there who will truly want to be in a relationship with you.
What do you think she should do? Should she be mad at him or her friend? Did we give the right advice?
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yeh gurl… I feel u… I’ve been in this very same situation before…. it may seem like you’ll never get over him… but believe me when i say this… it gets better in time…. keep yo head up babygurl
May 6th, 2009 at 2:12 pmif he still really have feelings for you, he will try to work it out with you..but it seems like he juss want to move on..and u really need to tlk to ur friend about him and how ur really feeling
May 9th, 2009 at 5:33 pmSERINA, FIRST OF ALL, NOT TO SOUND SO CRUEL BUT SOMETIMES GUYS TELL YOU WHAT THE THINK YOU WANT TO HEAR! TRUST ME, I KNOW! BUT HAVE YOU THOUGHT ABOUT IF HE REALLY STILL LOVES YOU, WOULD HE WANT TO HURT YOU? I’M PRETTY SURE HE KNOWS BY TALKING TO YOUR FRIEND THAT THAT HURTS YOU. AND WHAT KIND OF FRIEND IS THAT TO TALK TO YOUR EX? THERE ARE THINGS THAT SHOULD AUTOMATICALLY BE OFF LIMITS AND TALKING TO YOUR FRIEND EX MAN SHOULD BE ONE OF THEM…..YOU HAVE TO WATCH WHO YOU BEFRIEND. GOOD LUCK!
May 19th, 2009 at 4:23 pmwhat I think you should do is not even worry about the issue let nature take its course and si=ooner or later the truth will come out
May 21st, 2009 at 3:35 pm