Best Friend Problem
One day, my friend and I was passing notes in class and my best friend interfered & she said something in the note that made me mad. Thenafter class, she called me a name that I didn’t really like. So, I didn’t talk to her for a few days. All of a sudden dhe sent me an e-mail saying that she was wondering if we could be friends & she was just asking. So now we’re friends and sometimes it fells weird talking to her. Like for example, when you and yo ex-friend just started talking when you haven’t talked to each other in months. But now it seems like we don’t have that same connection that we did before we stopped talking to each other.
P.S.- What should I Do?
Our advice: You may just need a moment to fall back into the relationship since you weren’t speaking and were angry with each other for a moment. Forgive and give it time.
What do you ladies think? Let us know by leaving a comment.
You should probably kick her to the curb she’s probably not u’re real friend anyway.She’s talking behind you’re back so don’t just fall for it because she’s still going to anyway.
June 2nd, 2008 at 1:39 pmwhen people do stuff like that they are subject to do it again. dont be mean but be nutural right now she is not to be trusted and must be watched very closely.
June 2nd, 2008 at 3:10 pmmy bff is real acks mean and not like a bf
June 2nd, 2008 at 8:58 pmI HAVE BEEN IN THE SAME CONFLICT LIKE THAT BEFORE NOW ME AND THE GURL DON’T TALK ANY MORE CAUSE I LEARN THAT SHE WAS TWO FACED AND THAT WHAT UR FRIEND IS TOO
June 3rd, 2008 at 4:03 pmtalk it out
June 3rd, 2008 at 4:06 pmI have been in this situation before. What you need to do is give it some time. Talk to her and let her know how you felt about what happened and both of you need to open it up and then take it from there.
June 3rd, 2008 at 5:46 pmI THINK YOU CAN KICK HER SORRY BUTT TO THE CURB!
June 3rd, 2008 at 9:08 pmWELL IT DEPENDS WAT KIND OF FRIEND SHE IS U CAN EITHER START OVER WITH UR FRIEND SHIP OR GET A NEW FRIEND
June 4th, 2008 at 12:58 pmleave thegurl
June 4th, 2008 at 2:25 pmU SHULD TALK 2 UR FRIEND N TELL HER HOW U FEEL…SHE CANT READ UR MIND SO LET HER KNO HOW U FEEL N THINGS MITE GET BETTA
June 4th, 2008 at 8:58 pmTALK TO YOUR FRIEND MAKE UP AND IF SHE DOES IT ONE MORE TIME KICK HER TO THE CURB!
June 12th, 2008 at 1:18 pmyou should talk to her and if she does it one more time kick her to the curb
June 12th, 2008 at 1:19 pmgive it couple of weeks… the same thing happend to me too. last month my best friend n i had a fight.. we talked about it and we both said sorry to one another.. the next day at skool we still didn’t talk. i mean we still said hi to each other in the halls but we never that real convo like we use to do.. that time we didn’t speak for a week. for me, i felt that i need my space from her, cuz we’ve been hangin around each other a lot.. after the week of not speakin, we both finally came together and started talkin and once that happened, we became close friends again. trust me give it time! u dnt wana get ride of a close friend that have been there for u 4 almost all ur life..
June 14th, 2008 at 8:02 pmi think you should drop her. das what i did when i found out muh so called friend was saying stuff behind my back
June 17th, 2008 at 1:55 pmsome times ii get into it with my friends too but it always end up like a week later we are the best friends ever but now my bestfriend it seems like i do not like her so my advice is that you choose your friends wisley
June 18th, 2008 at 3:38 pmu should just try 2 talk 2 her and tell her how u feel and if i dont work find another friend
June 18th, 2008 at 3:39 pmi like this guy,but he makes me so nervous.I think its because hes not like all the other guys. Is that a good thing?
June 18th, 2008 at 10:20 pmsince your best friend called u a name and wrote something that u didnt like then she was a fake. she wasnt really your friend
June 19th, 2008 at 2:30 pmI think both of you are begining to grow apart,and that seems to be what’s best.Oh she seem like she might be a little fake. You know that saying friends come and go but, your bestfriend will stick by side for the long ride…
June 19th, 2008 at 9:14 pmI’ve been in that same situation and its very hard to try to get that connection back,for example her and I to tell one another our secrets. I love my friend even though we may get mad at each other but isn’t the end of the world. Its best for ya’ll to take it slow by slow but let the other friend know you still got that trust.
June 20th, 2008 at 9:32 amthey cute
June 20th, 2008 at 3:13 pmYou need to be strong and not let anyone put you down. The reality may be that she aint your true friend and that she’s maybe just jealous of you.
June 21st, 2008 at 3:30 pmwell if that best friend is really your best friend
June 22nd, 2008 at 3:45 pm(p.s. you sound young lil girl)
you guys should just leave this behind
I say that she wuznt trully ur best friend to call u such a name. It isnt ur fault it’s her’s bcuz she let jelousy took over her. U dnt need friends like that.
June 23rd, 2008 at 9:55 amfriends are gonna get mad at each otha because thats just wat friends do. but if you know that she will always be there for you and that u always will have her back, then you shouldnt let something like this come in between yalls friendship.
June 25th, 2008 at 1:47 pmi think dat if yo friend told u sum10 like dat dats not your real friend or just sit down and talk to her and tell her how u feel about the situation and if she don’t like wat she is hearing tell her u don’t think ya’ll should be friends anymore
June 25th, 2008 at 7:37 pmim going to keep it real i have a friend like that we are always into it so i keep my distance which is what you should do you know there comes a time when in a friendship the arguments should be over point of views on matters and not because one friend says something the other friend doesn’t like to nip it in teh but maybe this friend should become an associate
June 27th, 2008 at 1:03 amuhm,, i have a “friend” lykk that. she’s fakee. she’s just gonna keep hurtin yuu. keep yurr distance so yuu don gett too caught up in it,, chickk.
June 29th, 2008 at 2:11 pm=]] peacee
I HAV A FRIEND EXACLY LYKE DAT,BUT ITHINK U SHOULD TALK IT OUT WIT HER TELL HER THAT U DONT HAV DAT CONNECTION DAT U GUYS USE TO HAV ND MAYBE SHE FEELS DA SAME WAY BUT SHE JUST HASENT SED ANYTHING CUZ MAYBE SHES AFRAID OR SCARED, SO DATS MY ADVICE TO U
June 30th, 2008 at 2:50 pmum w3ll if yooh go=uii’sz w3r3 such guhd frii3nd’sz liik yooh saii yooh w3r3 th3n find’n ah conn3ction should b33 no3 probl3m nd just giiv3 it ah try
July 1st, 2008 at 12:32 pmwell everybody have a best friend who do and say mean things so the best thing to do is give her the chance to make it up to you. Try talking about why you two stop talking and after you talk forgive and forget. If that doesn’t work what can I tell you the two of you wasn’t really best friends.
July 2nd, 2008 at 2:33 amMe and My best did the same thing but it was more serious, We almost got in a “Fight” after lunch in school. We didn’t talk for a while, but after a while we put it behind us. We still have a little tension when we talk about certin things but I think you should just give it time.
July 2nd, 2008 at 1:39 pmME ND ONE OF MII BEST FRIEND IZ KIND OF IN THE SAME PROBLEM AS U BUT I DONT KALL HER A FRIEND OR A BEST FRIEND I JUST SAY SHE SOMEBODY I TALK 2 I THINK U SHOULD SAY DAT BUT DONT TELL HER UR SECRETS CUZ LAST TIME SHE SAID SOMETHIN 2 U DAT U DONT LIKE SO NEXT TIME SOMEBODY ASK U IF DATS UR BEST FRIEND OR FRIEND JUST SAY NO THEN SAY SHE SOMEBODY I TALK 2. I KNOW THESE THINGS CUZ I’M ALWAYS IN DIZ BEST FRIEND THINGS,FRIEND THIN,ND SHE SAID DIZ THINGS ND IT IZ NOT GOOD 2 BE IN CUZ U DONT WAT 2 MAKE SOMEBODY FEEL BAD BUT Y THEY WILL MAKE U FEEL BAD ASK DIZ QUESTION 2 U
July 3rd, 2008 at 1:19 amHonestly i don’t u shoulld talk 2 hr cuz no real friend wuld talk about u behind ur back! dat ain’t a tru friend!
July 3rd, 2008 at 1:48 pmwell i been in each 1 of those situation besides kickin her to the curb……..mii propblem is mii suppose to b bestie is tlkin to mii used to b friend we dont lik eachother and i asked her to stop tlkin to her bkuz she dont lik yo bestie she sed no……so then i started to think all mii friends turned there bacc then just stay to urself……………….im not sayin yhu kant have friends but just watch out who ur friends are if yhu feel there fake walk away……………and keep it pushin girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111
July 3rd, 2008 at 8:43 pmi honestly think that you should rlly forgive and forget just try and make it work but dont force it cuz the more yall push eachother to be friends when you really dont want to people tend to fall out of a friendship
P.S. ( JUST TRY………. BUT DONT FORCE IT )
July 3rd, 2008 at 11:50 pmi think you and her should sit down and talk it out. let her know where you are cumming frum. bcuz if you never talk to her and let her know how you feel you will never let the friendship go like you want it to. if you sit down and talk to her she will c where she went wrong and open her heart and cum to an understandin with you and know what she did wrong and why. If she doesnt c where she went wrong i thinks its best if you didnt have a friendship with her bcuz she may still feel the same way to you and just want to be your friend for certain reasons. but i agree forgive and forget. go on with your life if this holds you back all friendship was just there for a season and not a reason. i am 16 and i c a lot of my friends go through the same situation and i wish the best for yall.
July 5th, 2008 at 1:47 pmIF YOU GUYS WERE REALLY BF’S THEN AFTER A LITTLE TIME YOUR RELASHONSHIP WILL GROW BACK BUT IF U TELL HER WHY U WERE MAD AND SHE DOES IT AGAIN THEN YOU NEEDS 2 FIND YOU A NEW BEST FRIEND.
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