In Like and Afraid In Ireland
Hello Angela and Vanessa Simmons! Before I tell you two my problem I have to say I idolise the pair of you!
I am an Irish girl who is an avid Pastry maker… with a problem!
I like this boy we will call him “Justin”. I really like “Justin” and I think he kind of likes me back but there’s a problem!
Two of my really close friends like him and he really doesn’t like them. He called them bad things! “Justin” also has
this ex-girlfriend who is really rough. I am afraid that if she finds out we are dating (which she will) she might harm me…badly!
So what do i do? I really need help and fast!!!
Thank you!!
signed off- “Afraid!” xox
Our advice: It seems like you have a lot of drama coming at you in many directions regarding this boy “Justin”. We must admit, this is a bit difficult. We suggest that you really find out if going out with “Justin” is really worth it. Your friends may hold a degree of resentment if you start seeing him because they like him and there is the issue with the “Justin’s” rough ex. We really don’t want to see you involved with a violent confrontation with his ex. Maybe you should ask him if he is still involved with the ex. See if he can explain why she acts violent. You may want to even talk to the ex before pursuing “Justin”. You may also ask your friends how they would feel if you started seeing “Justin”. Ask them if they think it will effect your friendship. Ultimately, the choice is yours. Know that his ex has no right to behave in such a violent manner toward you. Think it over, discuss the issues with all parties involved, and decide.
What would you suggest? Should she go for it?
If you have a problem you need help with, we may be able to offer you advice for your situation. Contact us at advice@pastrykicks.com.
stay away girl stay away
May 8th, 2009 at 8:33 pmi like those that that glows in the dark
May 8th, 2009 at 10:28 pmYEAH STAY AWAY!!..he cum with to much drama..n if u dont feel safe seeing him u really need to drop him
May 9th, 2009 at 5:25 pmdont care wat nobody think if yall like each other yall should go out.
May 9th, 2009 at 5:58 pmId wait till his ex finds a guy
May 9th, 2009 at 6:39 pmbut i still would stay away for frienship sake
yeh gurl, you have to talk to both sides… and figure out the bottom of this….. dis could get dangerous
May 13th, 2009 at 11:23 amI really luv Pastry kicks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
May 15th, 2009 at 9:47 amEx girlfriends are nothing but drama
May 19th, 2009 at 10:51 pmwhat I think you should do is dont worry about it. They are over so she should accept that and move on. His ex dont own her so i think if she says something to you that you need to keep your composure and be the bigger person.
May 21st, 2009 at 3:31 pmWheen me and my Bf Shaun started going out we didnt want tu tell anyone tu begin wit because we kneww theey mayy say sumfin meen but eventually people started tuu find out because thee wud see us tugether hugging and holding hands. I thouught it was the best thing me and Shaun ever did. We caan hug and stuuf infront of our mates and it doesnt feel awkward sitting in silence anymore. People did sorta think summin was going oan because we were like best mates for 5 years and always spoke but anytime we were around mates we sat in silence ignoring each other. Xo
May 29th, 2009 at 7:47 amHis “Ex” caant doo anything. Its oveer between themm now. Youur the onee hee wants!
May 29th, 2009 at 7:49 amdont worry his “ex” is probably just jealous and anyway if he really liked you he wouldnt let his “ex” harm you and i bet if you ignore her and tell her its over between her and justin and too get over because its you he likes and you never know you and his “ex” might become friends one day, she might seem rough but inside she is probably just scared and weak and just trying to be who other people want her to be and be scared of instead of who she reaaly is so go 4 it date justin she cant really hurt you !!! i hope you use my advice !! GOOD LUCK !!!
June 9th, 2009 at 5:19 pmhey ! am irish but my problem is little compared to this ! i absolutely adore pasty shoes ! but in ireland its so hard to get ya hands on a pair,you either gotta travel to england or buy them online… i have bin lookin online for AGES ! but cant find any sites that i can buy from america to ireland …HELP ! ANYONE ???
August 15th, 2009 at 1:37 pmHi im jess love u gys i am from dublin ireland i would love even my friends would love if u could bring roloer skates to dublin in pink,black,pink you are all my romodels xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxjess
October 16th, 2009 at 5:15 pm