2 People, 2 Shy
Dear Vanessa and Angela Simmons;
I need help They is this boy at my school i used to like and something happend my friend at school told me that he said he like me and i just kept quiet i didnt even say anything to him. he knows that i like him he just keeping quiet. and every where i look he is there at school he keeps stiring at me i dont no why He said to my friend he wants to meet me outside of school to talk to me but i was really scared what he was gone say so i didnt turn up. But he kept saying he wants to met me all the time but I kept not turning up. But know I dont no what to do know because at school every where I go he is there. and when i am with my friends he calls my friends to come here and i go as well with my friends and then he says a joke and he keeps stiring at me he cant stop stiring at me as i dont no why. I want say hi to him but I am scared what he is gone say. but all his mate says hi to me and i say hi back he looks down on me I dont no why but he says a joke to my friends but he doesnt say a joke me he doesnt say anything to and he says hi to my friends but he doesnt say hi to me. but his friends says hi to me. me and my best friend when we walk past him i dont laugh athim but my friend does I also tell my best friend to give up. I want to befriends with him and talk to him and stuff I think he still likes or not I am scared what he is gone say and I havent told my other friends i just kept it to myself and my best friend. But its really doing my heading. and he is going to be in my lessons in grade 7th and i have to sit next to him. I am scared what he is gone say. i dont no waht to do please help me please please.
Our advice: It seems the both of you are being unreasonably shy. If you really want to start talking to him you may have to get the courage to speak to him first. He is just as shy as you are. If neither of you talk to one another you will never get to know one another and a relationship will not develop. Someone has got to break the ice. Whose it going to be? Go for what you want.
What would you suggest to these two? Should she be bold and modern and speak first or should she follow tradition and let him speak first?
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Girl! You gotta make yo’ move! ‘fore someone else does!
May 29th, 2009 at 10:54 pmIts Stareing/Starring Not Stiring
N E ways talk 2 him Dont Be Shy
May 30th, 2009 at 4:49 amtalk to him, dont be shy.
P.S. Not 2 be rude, but i couldn’t understand some of things you were writing. gone/gonna. Just helping.
May 30th, 2009 at 11:42 amGurl u n33d 2 t4lk 2 dis boy nd t3ll him u lik3 him since h3 like u i w4z goin thourgh d4t s4m3 promblem but just try 2 t4lk 2 him!
May 30th, 2009 at 2:39 pmGIRL U NEED 2 STOP BEIN SHY AND GET YO MAN. DO LIKE ME GET WAT U WANT IN LIFE.
June 1st, 2009 at 2:18 pmi think da same as da other ppl talk 2 him and u will get da results asa u start talking 2 him
June 1st, 2009 at 7:52 pmU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO SPELL STUFF AND OTHER THINGS. MY ADVICE IS TO NOY BE SHY AND TAKE ACTION BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE TAKES HIM. KEEP A LOOK OUT AT YOUR FRIEND TOO. SHE MIGHTS LIKE HIM.
June 1st, 2009 at 8:19 pmHey i understand yo writing a lil bit.Bt fo real u need 2 talk 2 hem cuz he lk u nd u lk hem.Bt watch yo back cuz yo friend mite like hem nd u need 2 talk 2 hem nd skools almost out.Bt go meet hem nd GET HEM GURL!!!!!!!
June 2nd, 2009 at 11:32 amgurl i know how most females like the man to be the chaser, but i think that you need to bite the bullet and just talk to him!!!!!!!!! you never know what might happen
June 4th, 2009 at 5:45 pmi know how you feel girl theres nothing i could do about it bye.
August 12th, 2009 at 4:09 pm